Side Note: We’re Evolving Fam
For the past year, this newsletter has been my home for sharing lessons on growth, leadership, and emotional intelligence—building in public.
That isn’t changing.
It’s about preparing myself—and hopefully others—for the most existential challenge humanity has ever faced: AI Alignment.
I worry about bringing my future kids into a world where we haven’t solved this problem. I truly do.
I don’t just want them to survive in the age of AI—I want them to thrive.
I’ll be making some changes to the newsletter branding in a good way—stay tuned for that. 👀
- Documenting everything. My wins, my losses, the hard lessons from building a startup.
- Sharing what I learn. Every week, you’ll still get distilled insights you can use in your own life.
- Building in public. I’m not just writing about growth; I’m showing the messy, beautiful process of becoming.
And the vehicle for this?
Clarity.

one that co-evolves with us,
that understands who we are, and what makes us human,
that shows us transparently what it knows about us and our values,
that maximizes our agency,
and deepens our self-understanding.
NOT an AI that replaces us.
An AI that helps us become our best self.
Here’s a hype video.
Hey don’t just take it from me—I’m the biased AF Founder building this.
We already have users, and they’re referring other users.

Another note…
I’m also growing my YouTube channel, where I’m documenting this journey in video form.
I’ve started posting a street interview just about every day, so people can follow along in real time.
Subscribe here—even if you don’t watch all my videos, your subscribing will assist our mission of helping everyone survive and thrive in the age of AI: youtube.com/@therobertta
So here’s what I’m committing to going forward: We’re building the AI we all need (on top of our own SDK):
Here’s what one woman in her 20s had to say about Clarity after 3 days:
If that resonates, join the waitlist at heyclarity.me.
But something inside me has shifted.
I’ve realized that my obsession with personal growth isn’t just about me.
A Founder’s Biggest Fear
The setup:
No scripts.
No guardrails.
Just raw user reactions.
And MANY rejections.
And…
Immediately I texted my co-founder Jonathan, but we couldn’t get a live fix that fast.

The result: Ina, a 20-year-old community college student, finished onboarding in 5:45 minutes and said the words that made my week:
“This helped me prep for therapy tomorrow.”
She clicked our self-alignment score help icon without hesitation.
She called our target-self narrative “encouraging.”
She navigated non-sequentially but intuitively.
And the kicker—she said she’d pay for Clarity if it “truly knew her.”
Those are all data points that show me we’re going the right way with our design.
The data:
- Onboarding completion: under 6 minutes (faster than expected)
- Immediate feature discovery: help icons, belief visualizations
- Value proposition: therapy prep + life decision support
- Willingness to pay: confirmed for personalized insights
Ina didn’t use Clarity the way we designed it—she used it the way she needed it.
Solid learning.
Now we’re targeting 500 weekly active users by November with 75 paid conversions.
I’m working on a virality campaign to drive a wedge on a beachhead I determined we can hit (more on that in future posts).
The path is getting more clear everyday.
You can say, I have clarity on Clarity’s roadmap and traction. 😂
“You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.”The lesson: Users will surprise you. This week I faced a founder’s biggest fear: putting my baby in front of more strangers.
Great learnings: cross browser testing is hell.
That’s the gap between product-founder fit (what makes sense in your head) and product-market fit (what actually resonates in people’s lives).
Street interviews with our Clarity app.
The app fucking broke on me in real time. LOL.
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The Brutal Truth of Building in Public
Here’s the part people don’t usually share about building in public.
It’s not all rainbows and unicorn dust.
This week, Jonathan McCoy (my cofounder) pushed until 03:30 AM fixing bugs just to enable basic user testing.
Shoutout to him for being the best Co-Founder ever.

Here’s what he worked through:
- Sliders in onboarding broke.
- 500 errors galore.
- Cross-browser nightmares. (seriously, someone go solve this problem please)
03:30 AM is right around the time I get up every morning.
Jonathan gets up around 10:00 AM.
By afternoon/evening (depending on the day), I’ve already put in reps in the morning and have gotten more learnings or iterations.
I’m the morning watch, he’s the night watch.
We have a handoff where everyday we’re prioritizing features based on user research interviews.
We go HARD, EVERYDAY.
We’re keeping it simple:
- We hop on a call, I share my synthesized learnings (all recorded)
- I make a list to prioritize for the next build cycle
- We align on what to ship
- We ship
- I go out hunting for more learnings
- I bring back synthesized learnings
Then we iterate, and ship more.

The days are long.
But we don’t compromise on ourselves, or our health.
Because we must act in alignment with who we want to become:
The team that solves for aligning AI to humans,
to help give the opportunity for every single human on the planet (including my future kids—shoutout if you read this, your dad loves you)
to become their best selves.
So our small but mighty team goes HARD at EVERYTHING.
In fact, because I get up so early (03:00-03:30ish), I work out and ship features before people even wake up.
Here’s a recent half marathon run I did before work, with a weight vest.

And I’m on day 273 of at least 30 minutes of daily meditation.

I try to make stuff like this is normal and casual for me.
Why?
Because I firmly believe that we need to be our best selves, to help humanity survive the age of AI.
And I have a saying:
Normal thinking,
Normal execution,
Normal results.
Outlier thinking,
Outlier execution,
Outlier results.
If we want outlier results, we must have outlier thinking and execution.
Every. Fucking. Day.
We’re building Clarity, so we need to have clarity in who we are.
If people depend on my product, to become their best selves—then I must set the highest possible bar for that myself and live that every single day.
My team too.
We do not deviate from that—our health is in service of the mission.
So there are no compromises on health, because success in the mission is a function of health.
I ALWAYS check in on my Founder friends’ health. ALWAYS.
When you’re building the future, you gotta be on top of your game.
So are you on top of your game?
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